Some sexual stuff

[asiaticdarkperson]

A couple months back, my buddy J (he's 35) met this 17 year old girl whose name I forget, who on their second date had revealed to him how years ago, one night her dad had been really piss-drunk and he walked into her bedroom and fucked her without the slightest sense of shame or awkwardness. And a couple months later, her older and only brother did essentially the same thing. In their house, it quickly became completely natural and commonplace for her father and brother to have sex with her whenever they felt like it. She, of course, did not know at the time that this was abnormal behavior. She had never questioned it, it had simply been a matter of course growing up in her home. And because the subject was taboo, no one in the family ever talked about it, so neither did she.

J, of course, ended up having a lot of sex with her. He felt sorry for her, and a compulsion to help her. We were discussing this over a joint of chaharmahal's finest cannabis on a cool and breezy early-spring day sitting under the shahyad (azadi) tower. I was just pussy-dicking around, and I told him that on their next visit he should float the idea of bringing someone else over to fuck her for money, and see how she reacts. His reaction of course was one of horrified indignation. He thought I was out of my mind, and he knew he would never disgrace himself with such a thing: koskeshi ie. pimping. We discussed the possibility that anyone in Iran would ever want to marry this girl, and it certainly appeared very likely that she would end up as a prostitute.

In fact, the sense I got from J's descriptions was that this girl _was_ actually herself looking for someone to pimp her out so she could make money, rather than just for a lover. I thought that if J didn't make a move, or at least a gesture, the girl would just move on and keep looking until she finds a man willing and capable of providing her with customers and protection, in addition to affection. Of course, the stigma attached to pimping in Iran is very bad. In Iran a man can marry (aghd [permanent] and sighe [temporary]) a very large number of women, and that's what koskesha do, they marry women and rent them out to others, virtually legally. This is generally considered very cheap, sick and dirty behavior in Iran, but to be a female pimp (khaleh which literally translated means aunt or auntie) is not as dirty, even though its legal ramifications are more serious.

I don't know what J decided to do, we never discussed the matter again. But based on all the clues she had given him, I was sure that if J suggested to her that she fuck a "friend" of his in exchange for cash, she would do it gladly and proudly, and she would love J for making it happen. I would go so far as to say that she would probably think of J as her liberator.

[asiaticdarkperson]

Years ago when I had first moved to the orchards, I came in contact with a family who on the occasion of our first meeting purported to be picnicing on my property randomly, but later it turned out that they were actually targeting me as a potential customer and cohort. It was past midsummer, still very hot out during the day, and I was frantically running around under the noonday sun desperately toiling to irrigate a 3-acre grove of walnuts. It was my first year out there and we were expecting a large harvest in a little over a month.

That day I distinctly noticed an attractive girl among the family of six, who kept staring at me every time I walked into her view. At some point while I was resting under a tree, two young men, the son and the son in-law, approached me. They appeared to be interested in finding out more about me, which was why they came over, to extend a friendly courtesy and to meet me. They were both junkies, I could plainly see it in their faces. I wasn't surprised when one of them asked me if I wanted to come over to their campsite and smoke some opium with them. For some reason, I politely declined, excused myself and got up and left them to check on the water, even though I was really interested in getting closer to the attractive girl.

They became regular weekend visitors. I learned that the car they drove in belonged to the younger daughter, the attractive girl, who had earned it through prostitution. Her mother and older sister were also prostitutes. The father of the family was their pimp and an opium dealer. They had lived in the area years ago, but had moved to a big city an hours' ride away. They gave me their home phone and cell numbers and told me I could call them whenever I wanted, and that if I ever wanted to visit them at their home that would be OK too.

During the walnut harvest, the mom (Sakina) gave a blowjob to the guy who I had hired as an expert laborer to climb the trees and shake off the ripe fruit, because she thought he was my friend from the city and she hoped she could entice him to give them some free walnuts. I gave them plenty of grapes, vegetables and walnuts out of pure charity on more than one occasion, and Morteza (the laborer) went all the way with the old worn-out whore, who still possessed some degree of sex-appeal.

I learned that the father had himself arranged for both of his daughters' first sexual encounters. He had pimped them out to his wife's customers once they had become of age (I'm guessing 16.) When she became a little older, the older sister apparently opted to get herself another pimp, which is who she married. The younger sister was managing her affairs herself, and from the looks of it (she made more money than all the others put together) she was handling it just fine. She had a large number of boyfriends who payed her cash, took her on trips around the country, and gave her gifts, for the benefit of her company.

[asiaticdarkperson]

Regarding the first case, if I come off as the bad guy for some reason, I'd like to indicate that I did not decree that no man should marry a girl who has been sexually abused by her father, it's just how people are. And I did not decide that women should be totally dependent on and subservient to men, it's how society is.

In Iranian society, excepting certain higher-class, cultured-westernised educated rich families who generally live in upscale neighborhoods in big cities, all girls are expected to marry. Girls, as has been the case traditionally, are raised to be wives for men. Their "purpose" is generally considered to be the nurturing and supporting of men, and giving birth to and raising children. As such, a girl who does not find a husband is essentially considered a failure. In farsi, "torshideh" (gone sour) is a derogatory and humiliating term for a girl who is past her prime (30 years old) and yet continues to live in her father's house. (No such concept exists for boys.) Under such conditions, Iranian girls generally go to university only to find a suitable husband. If a girl finishes her education without having acquired the interest, affection and commitment of a man, she has basically failed at university.

And to make things worse, Iranian society does not legally and officially recognize single women. A single girl needs her fathers' legal consent to do anything, which includes getting married. Only once she is married do her rights as a human being become recognized by the state and the law, but even barely then.

I am trying to establish that under the social circumstances of Iran, girls are led to believe that they must inevitably get married if they ever want to move out of their father's house and attain some degree of independence. Since Iranian fathers generally don't allow their daughters a lot of freedom, the impetus for any girl to find a husband is overwhelming.

In light of the facts, I think a girl who gets sexually abused by her father is automatically marked and fated for prostitution 9 out of 10 times in Iran. This, I believe, is what ancient seers and men of knowledge would have categorized as demonic marking. I don't believe any woman wants to be a prostitute, but evidently, some are destined for it since early childhood.

It doesn't take a genius to figure out that the culprit here is sexual attraction, aka lust. I can easily see how a man might find himself suddenly attracted to his daughter through absolutely no intention of his own. This I believe is generally how sexual attraction works; one becomes excited and aroused, even to the point of intoxication and irrationality, by the mere presence of the other, and no amount of thought or reasoning can accomplish anything to the contrary. So, if a guy starts getting boners for his daughter, the only sane course of action is to send her away to a boarding school, or to live with relatives, immediately. Otherwise, what comes next is a whole lot of demonic possession through lust, which I might remind is officially sanctioned and approved by our culture, except when it is directed against children.

If I were a paranoid schizophrenic conspiracy-theorist, I'd say this is the system the demons have set up to be able to hand-pick who becomes a prostitute. If I were to venture a blind guess, I'd say that they pick the most talented and gifted of our female children to be desolated in this way. Like how they used to demand that our strongest and smartest young men be sacrificed at their altars.

[asiaticdarkperson]

Here's some more about this girl, whose name I still don't know. She turned 18 last month BTW. For the past few months, she's been spending the weekends over at J's place. J lives in a two-bedroom apartment, in a shithole southside neighborhood, with four other guys. The guys are all from Gilan, which is a 4-5 hour ride away from Tehran, and northern people living in Tehran generally never miss an opportunity to get away from the big city and relax in their lush green rural homeland. Which is why on any given weekend, only two or three of the guys are usually home. So, she hangs out at their apartment all day and all night, and whenever they wanna screw around with her, she submits and always enjoys it heartily, as I'm told.

According to my informant, who is a great dude btw, Mr. "J", she spends the rest of the week at various other guys houses and her father's house. Her parents split up two years ago. Her dad is still in the habit of having his way with her regularly. She was thirteen when her dad first assaulted her, and apparently, that first time she unconsciously showed resistance to what he wanted to do, so he beat her bad and branded her ass with a red-hot iron skewer (used for smoking opium.) After that, she never resisted him again. She never stays over at her mom's house anymore, and she actually greatly prefers her dad's place over her mom's, because her mom used to send her to guys' apartments where she would have sex with as many as 4 dudes in one night, and her mother would get all the money. According to her mom, she had to do this for the priviledge of living and eating under her roof. She was 15-16 years old then. She lived with her mother, getting passed around like a real professional hooker for six months before she decided to move back in with her dad.

She smokes meth, opium, weed, whatever's going around. She claims her parents told her that she was a mistake and they never wanted her, since she was a toddler. They always made it clear to her all throughout her life that they did not love her or want her, she was always made to feel like worthless dirt. It seems her older brother and sister, most likely following their parents' lead, had also gotten into the habit of constantly abusing and mistreating her.

I'm not fuckin making _any_ of this up. It's all real. It's inconceivably real.